Sunday, May 31, 2009
Sunday, May 10, 2009
See what my precious brood gave me for Mother's Day 2009.
First, from my 12 year-old daughter:
Then, from my 9 year-old (she was *so* excited to give it to me!):
Finally, from my sweet 4 year-old son (flowers made from coffee filters):
Am I a lucky Mom, or what?
And here's what I spent 2 glorious hours this morning making for the Nannys:
I am counting all my little blessings today. My thoughts are with those of you are who still waiting to share your first Mother's Day with your child.
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Our oldest child is now 12 years old. Can you imagine? Almost a teenager.
When she was born, I was a graduate student. Still a grad student when our second daughter was born. I have always been a studying and working mom and, because of the wonderful social support I have, balancing the needs of a young growing family and a relatively demanding career has been more than manageable. The addition of our third child did not make our lives any more hectic. In fact, after DX was adopted, I was actually able to take parental leave and still have an income (whoo-hoo!). Once my leave was over, and DX went to preschool, we pretty quickly adjusted to this new daily routine. Three kids- three different drop-offs in the morning. My husband took one child, I took two... no problem.
THEN, all of a sudden, life got CRAZY BUSY! Mostly, I think, due to our 12 year old's activities. She is in school band, school choir, on the school basketball team (which her Dad coaches), takes after-school piano lessons, and is in the school's spring musical production. While band and choir mostly happen during school hours, basketball, piano, and "the show" involve a LOT of after-hours time- and a lot of ferrying her around! Our younger daughter is involved in basketball, music, and gymnastics- but, so far, her schedule hasn't been quite so demanding. DX takes music during preschool and did swimming before Christmas. SO, the younger two kids' activities definitely contribute...
Now, this is all good. We want our kids to be involved in sports, music, and the community. But, I can't help but feeling we're entering a whole new era in our family balancing act- time together vs. activities. Down-time vs. van-time. Sane vs. strung-out? (that's me, of course).
I guess this *is* a new phase in our family's life, calling for us to pull out some new tools from our parental toolbox. Ai yi yi! Who'd have figured that parenting preteens would be more busy than parenting toddlers!?!
My mother, that's who.
But do I listen to my mother?